A recent study of over 10,000 women in 9 countries found that feminists don't dislike men any more than men dislike men, or more than other women - which is mostly they don't. Primarily it's guys saying that women/feminists hate men as a way to derail the conversation about things that need to change.

https://www.surrey.ac.uk/news/new-study-debunks-myth-feminists-hate-men

"Following in depth surveys, researchers found that feminists in Italy, Poland, the US, and the UK have largely positive attitudes toward men, which are much higher than neutral or baseline values, and do not differ from non-feminists."

If there are some women that say they hate men, it's mostly lashing out about how they are treated by men and not actually hatred of men themselves. There are a few women out there who do generally hate all men as a gender - but again, it's due to what they've suffered at the hands of men their entire lives.

Women are frustrated, angry and fucking exhausted at trying to get men to care about what life is like for them without attacking women for speaking up. But, "I'm sick of your bullshit and the way you won't take ownership for hurting us" is not the same as actual hate.

Overwhelmingly, misogyny is not really about hate either - it's about wanting women to stay in their patriarchally assigned lanes where they are quietly and subserviently prioritizing men's needs and comfort. Only women who refuse to do that are "the problem."

Claiming that it's actual hate is unnuanced and basically missing the point. In my experience, men who talk about misandry are not trying to have a good faith discussion, can’t be reasoned with, and are a waste of my time. If that’s not you, then prove me wrong by speaking to the things that I’ve pointed out.