Equality isn't a relative concept. Trying to pretend that it is is just a knee-jerk reaction against actually having it. Equality means having the same rights and opportunities, and don't pretend we already have that when every day in America a woman has to sue to get those legal rights and opportunities enforced, when women are 51% of the population but only 27% of elected officials, when there are more CEOs named John than their are women in those positions, when nearly all women have experience sexual harassment and violence of some kind, when men have more lines in all media, even in fucking Disney Princess movies.
https://pudding.cool/2017/03/film-dialogue/
"The definition, as I have spent my life believing it to be, is the belief that men and women should have equal social, political, and economic rights and opportunities. I do think that that is the most inclusive definition of what feminism is about. It's about equality for both men and women and a playing field that respects the voices of women. True equality, true feminism is recognition of the dynamics that each person brings to the table. And I say "each person" because women will have reached truest levels of equality when men also have truest levels of equality. As long as we stay and assign task and duty, responsibility and opportunity to a particular gender, then we are not actually striving for true feminism."
I'm not going to debate you beyond this. Mental gymnastics won't change the facts. Only when men like you stop fighting equality will it improve. You can either be a part of the problem or a part of the solution - you choose.
