Have you ever gotten off the computer and actually been outdoors? If so, you'll notice that all shapes, sizes, and economic levels of people are paired up - and most of the time, the woman is better looking than the guy. Also "access to women" is a really disgusting term - as if women are a commodity and not people. I''m guessing that this sort of thinking is the actual root of the problem.
98% of the time a guy doesn’t know who the woman that wasn’t interested in him ended up with. Telling stories about how it was related to him not being rich or buff enough scapegoats the woman and deflects from the fact that either there just wasn’t a connection or that he had no self-confidence, poor social skills, bad grooming or something else about him.
"Personality had a much greater effect on women's perception of good looks than men. "It's quite remarkable how little women are influenced by physical looks. All men should pay attention to this. It's much more important to be a valuable social partner than worry about your physical looks," says David Wilson." (an evolutionary biologist)
