I know this kind of behavior exists. I've just never experienced it. I had maybe 3 girls be shitty to me my whole life, but literally hundreds of guys who were bullying or nasty for no real reason. My number one criteria for picking a doctor is if they are female. I understand that you had very specific experiences that led to you feeling differently, and that's cool. Everyone has gone through different stuff in their life. I'm just pointing out that not necessarily everyone deals with the same things. Just glad you found your own way and that you have some good friends who support you.