I noticed that Elle Beau is talking about this same book. Kate Manne is a very well respected social philosopher with a strong academic base and Down Girl is an important work on this topic.

Say more about your hate, anger and resentment - because that sounds like misogyny to me - even if it's a low level sort. I'm angry at patriarchal masculine culture and the way it's hurt me (and pretty much everyone else) but I wouldn't say I resent or hate men, so I'm curious to hear more about what you mean.