I'm glad that she was helpful to you and I do understand that aspect of how Gaga touches people but it's pretty clear by the numbers that for reasons that may not resonate for you personally Swift touches and inspires her fans in larger numbers. It is what it is.

Here's an interesting breakdown of Swift fans. It turns out, 61% are also Lady Gaga fans, and 48% of her fan base are men.

https://business.yougov.com/content/48990-8-fascinating-insights-on-taylor-swifts-american-fanbase