I'm sorry that happened to you, but as I said, it's not a contest and your personal experience doesn't equate to pervasive societal dynamics. YOU don't get it - you are not the center of the known universe and the fact that you've been abused by a woman doesn't mean that nearly all women haven't been sexually abused by men in some way, shape, or form.

You didn't "offer a perspective" - you claimed this was THE only real and valid perspective. If you don't know how to talk about your life without invalidating other people's experiences, that's a problem you might want to address.