In a culture that overtly messages men that the way to be a man is to not be a woman and that men deserve to control women, I think most of these fears stem from that. Men are "supposed' to be "dominant" and "confident" and to be successful with women. Honestly, how did all these "men's studies" experts neglect to take that into account in favor of blaming mothers for the things that patriarchal culture does to men?? 🙄