Most accusations of misandry are just thinly veiled attempts to keep women in line. There is so little actual misandry in the world and the feminists who actually do hate men are hardly even close to the majority voice in my experience. On the other hand, there is a HUGE amount of male voices tellling women about how they really aren't suffering, what their lived experiences are actually like, etc. I personally experience that just about every day. The vast majority of feminst writing on Medium is right on target.

This story says it really well:

https://medium.com/inside-of-elle-beau/thats-not-an-example-of-misandry-38d97eab1906