None of this makes the slightest bit of sense. You're saying words that don't have any meaningful implication or basis in actual reality. They are belied by all of the statistics I recently quoted to you and many thousands more that I could quote if I had the time or the wish to do so. And, beyond this one last note, I don't have any more time to waste trying to talk sense to somebody who is so solidly off on their own planet and is refusing to grapple with what is taking place here on earth.

A thoughtful examination of society reveals that androcentric dominance hierarchies are alive and well and that nearly all of our society's social ills are caused by them. Refusing to believe that isn't solving or improving anything for anyone, least of all for men, who suffer greatly from these dynamics as well. Men perpetrate nearly all violence in our very violent society (including sexual violence, which is ubiquitous), and most of that is not perpetrated by monsters, it's done by regular, everyday men acting out mainstream masculine norms and scripts. I get why you are in denial, but frankly, we need you and all the other guys who are similarly sticking their heads in the sand to be strong enough to confront what's really going on - because that is THE only way that it changes and gets better for us all.

As a man, once you are aware of the degree to which women suffer from gender violence and all forms of sexism, you can’t simply go about your business and pretend everything is fine. You have to do something about it or else risk losing your self-respect. This is where denial comes in. Denial is a tried-and-true method of coping with disruptive, traumatic, or discomforting information; it is much less painful than facing the truth.

Katz, Jackson. The Macho Paradox (p. 41). Sourcebooks. Kindle Edition.