Oh good lord, you clearly are completely irrational and just making up false equivalencies that have no basis in either actual logic or truth. The fact that major management organizations (made up of men and women) have done research that often concluded that women make better leaders is in no way a feminist belief or a belief that men are extraneous. You're just grasping at straws with that one.

Please don't tell me you're an All Lives Matter kind of guy because that's what you're essentially saying here - that unless you are centered in the story and prioritized, you don't support those who have actually been and are still being marginalized, discriminated against, harassed and raped, to have any real redress for that because it's not all about ME, ME, ME! Aren't you some sort of minister? What kind of bullshit is that for a minister to say? I don't want people who are hurting to claim the right to better because I'd rather act like a 5 year old throwing a tantrum.

And besides the fact that patriarchy also harms men in a wide variety of ways, and is a social system - not a synonym for men, feminism is completely honest about being for the advocacy of the rights and interests of women - because that's where the deficit lies. The side effect is that greater equality demonstrably is better for men as well, leading to better health, longer life spans, and the mitigation of a lot of the genderized bullshit that harms men and boys.

Your impression and opinion are self-indulgent and fairly worthless when they are so far from the realm of actual facts and reality. You are essentially being driven by your emotions - complaining that mommy is supposed to take care of you, that she is out of line for caring anything about her own needs. 🙄

I can see why Elle got fed up with you. The level of peevish faux-martyrdom based on absolutely nothing of substance is just astounding but also incredibly pathetic.