These all sound very reasonable taken out of context but that's not what you actually said in another story. You said that it was selfish and out of line for feminism to be focused on the problems that affect women (while you pretended to be a feminist). Rather than speaking directly to the comments made to you elsewhere, you instead wrote a passive-aggressive side story here where the actual truth comes out - you don't think that women have more problems than men, just different ones. If that is indeed the case, please stop calling yourself a feminist (and read a GD newspaper).

My son has a lot of special needs and health concerns. While I have great empathy for parents dealing with juvenile diabetes or a child facing cancer, I don't invest my limited time and resources in focusing on advocacy around those issues because they are not the ones that directly impact me and my family. According to your reasoning, that is very selfish of me.

How about men get together and start fixing all the ills that patriarchy causes men because that will have the side-effect of solving most of the things that feminism deals with. Mainstream masculine norms around domination and control (particularly of women) as well as the strict gender binaries of patriarchy (and the violent enforcement of them) are at the root of all of this - for everyone. Women need to support men in doing that, but stop asking us to do it for you. We've got our hands full already in a way that is so far from your lived experience that you apparently can't even wrap your head around it or perceive it. You don’t seem to grasp what the term privilege even means.