So, mostly you've quoted her back to herself without disproving anything that she's said and talked a lot about how you weren't offended when she rebutted your assertions using quotes and experts, even though you were offensive, condescending, and dismissive. Just how much cognitive dissonance have you got going on here? What I read from Elle was logical, supported by data and expert opinion. It made sense and came from a variety of subjects to synthesize into a cohesive whole. From you, not so much.