This is such a good point - but as you said earlier, even then, I don't believe most women truly hate men. They hate that dynamic, they hate not being safe and not being taken seriously, etc., etc., etc. but as pointed out in a recent large survey, most feminists like men quite well (and I'm assuming that applies to women who don't identify as feminists as well) - they just want the bullshit to stop.

https://www.vice.com/en/article/feminists-dont-hate-men-study/