What are you even talking about? I've seen exactly zero of these. What I have seen are stories that note that guys who have never cared about anybody else's pain in their entire life suddenly want the women they've been mocking and harassing to show them a lot of empathy. That's not OK and it's not remotely the same thing as laughing at their pain. Nobody thinks it's funny that men are lonely but that doesn't mean that women aren't fed up with entitled demands to stop caring about their own loneliness, their own sexual frustration IN ADDITION to having to guard their drinks, and hope the Uber driver won't rape them, and that their boss won't take them seriously.
Please link to me even one story where someone is genuinely gleeful at the fact that men are lonely, because I don't believe that they exist. And it is not feminists problem to solve yours. Men are still a socially, economically, and politically dominant demographic. The whole history of the modern world has revolved around your needs. It's like demanding White history month or Straight Pride month. Good heavens, how blinded by your privilege are you?
Men aren't any lonelier than anybody else. Why aren't you advocating for caring about the loneliness of the disabled or in the gay community? In some studies, women are actually lonelier than men. Why aren't you talking about that?
You've got a few decent ideas here in the "what to do" category but you've draped them in miosogyny. Is that what you think it takes for men to listen to you because all it does is foster the notion that men are incredibly entitled and fragile.