Women have an enormous sex drive as well - but it's been culturally curtailed by patriarchy. Up until the late Medieval age, women were considered much more carnal, much more libidinous than men. It was one of the things so called "witches" were often accused of. So no - that's not an excuse. Patriarchy has trained men to look at women as objects to attain and not as human beings to get to know. Fix that and life gets infinitely better for everyone - including more and better sex - something that is well documented in more gender-equal cultures.