WTF are you on about? Aside from the fact that throughout history, zaftig women were often considered the most beautiful and desirable, there are many factors that go into the dynamic that as a nation, Americans tend to be larger than say, Europeans - something that is just as true of American men. Are you actually saying that there’s remotely any comparison between basic civility and kindness and somebody looking like a twig because that’s what society has taught you is desireable?