Your personal experience is not necessarily indicative of anything but your personal experience. I'm going to trust research done by the Secret Service, the Canadian government, and a whole bunch of professional researchers over your say so.

And no, you can't make the same case about feminism. There is significant sociological, economic, historical, psychological, and other mainstream research that indicates that patriarchy has demonstrably harmed the planet, women, children, and MEN in a wide variety of ways. Pretending like that's hateful to say that is just fragile.

Denmark is a robust market economy where children are taught empathy in schools and where people are encouraged to complete against their own past performance, not against their peers. These are considered core management and leadership skills. Not only is their economy thriving, but it routinely scores in the top 3 of the happiest countries in the world. So, don't act like corrupt and predatory Late Stage Capitalism in the US style is the only possible way that we can have a strong economy. And don't act like if something good comes out of something we aren't allowed to talk about all the bad things that also came out of it.