You're acting like most men are angels and only a few bad ones spoil it for everyone, when that's not the case at all. The culture is misogynistic and scary and harmful to women, so stop acting like you have nothing to do with that. You've laughed at sexist jokes before I'm gonna bet; you've turned a blind eye to guys who were hassling/catcalling women, right? You don't have to be a rapist to be participating in this harmful culture which negatively impacts women's lives every day. It's not our job to put up with shitty behavior just because you don't know how to act like anything other than a predator.