🤦♀️ If you're not living under a rock, then why have you needed all of these things explained and "proven" to you? Why did you assert that the 14th Amendment somehow gave women equality under the law - when that's demonstrably not the case and every third grader in America who has studied women's suffrage knows it.
Having legal rights is not exactly equivalent to having them in a cultural context. Just ask Black people if they really and truly have equality just because they are supposed to.
What's happening in other cultures is irrelevant to the validity of the statistics that describe the problems in our culture.